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We pull back the curtain on the real stories of online dating in the second half of life.

Each week we’ll explore issues facing men and women over 50 navigating the confusing world of online dating - often for the first time. These are raw, honest conversations which reveal the motivations, desires, turn ons, turn offs, successes, and failures in this new world of dating-on-demand.

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Hoyt’s Best of Season 2 (so Far)

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The Alechemy of “us”

Dr. Wendy Patterson shares her best advice on how to turn “friction” with your romantic partner into “opportunity.” Listen Now

Get into your “Discomfort” Zone

Therapist Cindy Hopper joins to explore how our comfort zone often undermines our efforts to find love online. Listen Now

Attachment Styles and Dating

Does that matter anymore? Like everything else, the answer is, “It depends.”

Great Sexpectations

What the hell is “the three date rule” anyway? How our daters navigate alignment and misalignment on this most intimate of topics

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Meet your Host

I’m your host, Hoyt Prisock. I’m an Atlanta based serial technology entrepreneur. 19 years ago I created an online speed dating platform that successfully launched as a Match.com service. I’ve been fascinated by online dating ever since.

At age 59 I found myself divorced after 27 years of marriage. My efforts to demystify online dating for myself, and my innate curiosity and love of people led me to believe we can learn so much about ourselves by understanding the experiences of others who are also walking our path. My passion for sharing these stories led me to create Behind the Swipe.